Are These 6 Secret Fears Holding You Back in Your Holistic Biz? (and your life)

“There is a power inside every human–against which no earthly force is of the slightest consequence.”    Neville Goddard

Are you hiding your own magnificence under lock and key? Do you feel like you have so much more you want to do, express in your life and your business?  Do you think “I have this BIG Vision for my life and my business– but I’m not manifesting it.”

You know that changes need to be made but at the same time you feel AFRAID–and this stops you in your tracks.  You start to:


*Doubt yourself


*Waste time

*Feel confused

*Get scattered

*Worry about someone else

*Get sidetracked with someone else’s agenda

*Get sick or have an accident

Why are you afraid of your Potential– of being all that you came here to be — expressing your gifts and Life Purpose full out?

Here is what I have discovered are at the core of this Fear for people:Fear2

1. I’m afraid of really being SEEN because if I am visible I will be: hurt, judged, told I am a fake, told I don’t know what I am talking about, told I am bad, told I am wrong for what I am doing, lightening may even strike me:)

2. I’m afraid that my life will change and that I won’t like it:  I won’t be as close to my family, my partner and I will grow apart, I won’t have enough time with my kids,  I won’t have any free time, I will lose what I love in my life.

3. I’m afraid things will change and others close to me won’t like it: my partner will leave, my kids will get angry with me, my friends will be resentful, my family will judge me.

4. I’m afraid I won’t know what to do–I will be overwhelmed with the new and will feel lost: what if I can’t do it, what if I fall flat on my face, what if I’m just not talented enough, what if I make a fool out of myself?

5. I am afraid I am not ready now, I have to: go back to school, take another class, learn this new process, practice some more (maybe a few more years:), I have to wait until I am not afraid,  I’m plain just not ready now!

6. I am afraid that the Universe and other people won’t support me: The Universe is against me, other people will not support me, I’m doing this all alone–it feels so big and I feel small, as I move forward I will get resistance rather than support.

Which of these fears do you have?  These are the core fears of you holding yourself back from your Potential and Dreams.  The key step in moving beyond these fears is to begin to verbalize and name these fears otherwise they operate unconsciously and keep you stuck.

Many times these fears are operating below the surface and you feel stuck but you don’t know the exact root of the fear.  When you have these fears it means you are operating from your Conditioned Self and not from your Authentic Self.

Your Authentic Self is rooted in faith, love and a desire for full expression of who you are and your potential.  The more you line up with the love, power and faith of your Authentic Self the more powerfully you will be able to manifest the sweetest, most magnificent Visions for your Life and your Holistic Business.

I would love to hear below what fears you have uncovered from reading this so you can name it and move beyond it into the Joy of your Authentic Self!!

Sending you Love and Blessings. 

One Response to Are These 6 Secret Fears Holding You Back in Your Holistic Biz? (and your life)
  1. Mary Christensen
    March 1, 2014 | 8:20 pm

    I have many fears, which include not having enough business experience or sense to market or promote myself, not having enough technical help or skill, not having enough funds to purchase services, not finding ideal clients, being rejected or ignored by family and friends, and on and on. Some days it does not seem worth it to continue the battle with fear and I want to just give up and say, well I guess that did not work. Can anyone relate?

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